Building Society....Changing Mindsets......

After a long time, I'm here again to write something different rather my inner conscience asked me to pen my thoughts, my speculations regarding it. Actually I'm talking about how we can change the society, how we can eradicate all sorts of superstitious ideas, the so called prejudices which restrict us to think beyond the line. Why can't we think out of the box and change our orthodox creeds to create a new, a brand new timeline from where people will follow us and get those courage to change the dogmatic feelings and surpass all social barriers. Yup, this is true, we have to stay in society and it's our moral duty to go with the norms of the society, but at the same time we have to ensure that it won't affect our development of personality. We know, that youngsters learn from the older-ones as firstly we learn from our parents as well as from school. Under this circumstances the parents play a vital role. But in our country where a fat percentage of people are living from hand to mouth, these sentences might seem odorless. But time has come to rethink about it again and again. That's why we need proper education for new-age parenting which will bring more maturity. It's a natural propensity to rear the children keeping within the mental as well as social framework designed according to the way they had learnt & experienced from their forefathers. But with the generation-gap, modulation in the style of upbringing is of dire necessity. Some parents have extremely high possessiveness over their children, some take entire charge over their children's life even if they have passed their teens. So their lives become suffocating. Firstly it hampers in developing of inner personality of their children. Secondly, they never become self-independent on decision making as well as their confidence level is getting diminished day by day. Rather it will be very useful if the parents help their children to learn the problem solving techniques instead of try solving each of the problems separately of their life. But there is also a positive effect and a positive logic against this choice. Parents will always have huge apprehension even from a little hazard out of their countless affection to their children. Their emotional protection acts a capsule to their children that's gonna protect them from all kind of evils of the society. But we have to understand that, unless we put them in risks or hazards, how they will learn to handle them ? How they will learn how to deal with the situation and take immediate decisions based on the depth of the incidents ? That means, calculated risks are always welcomed after properly judging the situation. Am I right ? Modern parenting is of something different which doesn't normally go with the standardized format. Think twice.


Never think that I'm taking side of anyone. As an impartial writer, I'll will always try to give some glimpses of the Gen-Y thoughts, how they think, how they react and blah blah blah.....

Thanks.