Building Society....Changing Mindsets......

After a long time, I'm here again to write something different rather my inner conscience asked me to pen my thoughts, my speculations regarding it. Actually I'm talking about how we can change the society, how we can eradicate all sorts of superstitious ideas, the so called prejudices which restrict us to think beyond the line. Why can't we think out of the box and change our orthodox creeds to create a new, a brand new timeline from where people will follow us and get those courage to change the dogmatic feelings and surpass all social barriers. Yup, this is true, we have to stay in society and it's our moral duty to go with the norms of the society, but at the same time we have to ensure that it won't affect our development of personality. We know, that youngsters learn from the older-ones as firstly we learn from our parents as well as from school. Under this circumstances the parents play a vital role. But in our country where a fat percentage of people are living from hand to mouth, these sentences might seem odorless. But time has come to rethink about it again and again. That's why we need proper education for new-age parenting which will bring more maturity. It's a natural propensity to rear the children keeping within the mental as well as social framework designed according to the way they had learnt & experienced from their forefathers. But with the generation-gap, modulation in the style of upbringing is of dire necessity. Some parents have extremely high possessiveness over their children, some take entire charge over their children's life even if they have passed their teens. So their lives become suffocating. Firstly it hampers in developing of inner personality of their children. Secondly, they never become self-independent on decision making as well as their confidence level is getting diminished day by day. Rather it will be very useful if the parents help their children to learn the problem solving techniques instead of try solving each of the problems separately of their life. But there is also a positive effect and a positive logic against this choice. Parents will always have huge apprehension even from a little hazard out of their countless affection to their children. Their emotional protection acts a capsule to their children that's gonna protect them from all kind of evils of the society. But we have to understand that, unless we put them in risks or hazards, how they will learn to handle them ? How they will learn how to deal with the situation and take immediate decisions based on the depth of the incidents ? That means, calculated risks are always welcomed after properly judging the situation. Am I right ? Modern parenting is of something different which doesn't normally go with the standardized format. Think twice.


Never think that I'm taking side of anyone. As an impartial writer, I'll will always try to give some glimpses of the Gen-Y thoughts, how they think, how they react and blah blah blah.....

Thanks.

I am uploading a Bengali Song's Lyrics (written in Bengali). This song provides the basic familiarization with fundamental musical structure (Thaat) to the novice music students. Have a read ------------->


Familiarization with Basic Musical Structure

A Story Of Life, Living & Chasing the Life.......:-)

Way back in late '80-s a boy was born. People called him Mohit, although he had several nicknames like other babies normally have. He was lovable to everyone. As he was born premature, it was extremely difficult for his mother to make him survived. But ultimately by God's grace, he won the battle and became a citizen of earth. But later he developed his eye-problem, as the doctors previously apprehended the chances of having defects or problems in one or more organs. It might be one of many reasons of bringing him up in an overprotective environment. His mother was extremely cautious about her only son. Despite of having health-problems in his early age he was extremely intelligent at his childhood. Although he could not concentrate on a single thing for a long time, still he managed his homework as he had a photographic memory. But fate smirked him at every step of his life. He belonged to a lower-middle class family. Quite naturally he could not avail education in A-Grade institutes due to financial stringency. But his parents never let him feel the problems of day-to-day life. At a very tender age he developed immense knack in cultural activities. It was obvious as he was being brought up in a cultural ambiance. Eventually he took admission into a local music school. It was all going good. He then started earning recognition from friends and relatives. Later he had to quit the music-school as their residence got shifted to a distant place. Incidentally after a few days, he got an opportunity to learn under an eminent musical exponent in the city. He started his training under him. As I have already said, he was little bit restless and confused about his life, he accidentally took a wrong decision like putting the card before the horse. He stopped his training for his higher education as higher education was his first priority. His parents warned him several tines, but still he was stuck into his decision and lost his links from this field and became out of touch with which he was loving like anything. But God might have been designing his fate in a different way. He had lot of expectations from his life, sometimes revolted to his loved ones, but then regretted. But he always tried to be honest. Sometimes he could, sometimes he couldn't. When he found that he had not got his coveted job, he became more confused and a little bit dejected of his life. It was impossible for him to erase his past to turn over a new leaf. He lost his way. Still he is searching for a life, chasing his dreams which has a meaning in life, living. May be, the way of finding the proper route is still unknown....

Dear Readers, he still needs your support and well-wish.
Don't you bestow your hands to him ??
Can't you connect yourself with him by any moments of your life ??