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Since few days I've been brooding over some weird thoughts. I don't know why. That's the purpose of this post. Before being more puzzled, let me express my views & I think I must share the things I've learnt and realized so far. It might sound little bit harsh, but I'm sorry.
In this present scenario, when our country is emerging as one of the strongest economic powerhouse of the world and ushers a new horizon to the rest of the globe, it is very important for the people to come forward and take necessary responsibility to play a significant role by taking part in this developmental process. But we, the so-called responsible and sensible citizens of India are noway interested in hearing that. The so-called civil society is ostentatiously worried about the erosion of moral values and respects, specially when the entire society became paranoid and acts like a reptile. But has anybody tried to find out the reason behind this sort of mentality? What made us think in a so rude or rather self-centered way? Nobody can answer it. Because India is such a country where population is 121 crore and increasing in a rapid rate. There is no solution. A country where ministers and MPs are accused of money laundering over 2 lac crore (if not more). A country where cancer of many forms is going to emerge as an epidemic in the coming few years. There is no solution. There is no campaigning. 80 crore of people earn less than Rs.20/- per day in the 2nd most developing country of the world. A country where baby-food is costlier than mobile phone. A country where cars are huge in number as compared to roads. Above all, there is deep recession as an aftereffect of global economic meltdown. There is cut-throat competition in every sector because of the population and situation is getting even worse because of reservation in every sector. To survive in the keen competition, you have to be tricky. Focus to the goals are most important thing I think. Goals are more important than the way you achieve it. Yah.. morality is good as long as it works for you. But nothing is good if it doesn't work for you and anything bad might be good for you if it works for you. "Good" or "Bad" is absolutely relative. You can't always take the right decisions, rather you should always take the decisions and make them right. You just have to love yourself. That's it. This is not a kinda vocal tonic or anything else, that's the reality. You might be technically at par always, but you know, there are always required certain subtleties which you can call x-factor or zing-factor that actually makes you different from others. You can reach upto certain level by your academic skills. But to go beyond that limit you need to cultivate yourself. Secondly, another thing I need to point out is the treatment the guardians should provide to their children. You have to understand that ultimately nobody is your friend in the professional arena. In the era of rat-race everybody is running after his/her own targets. Less no.of people become happy watching you succeed, and more no.of people become happy watching you fail. Now you decide, what you should do. Over-possessiveness is kinda of mental blocks among the guardians which ultimately causes harm. In research, it has been seen that overprotective children ultimately suffer emotional insecurity and identity-crisis. Because in every situation if guardians interfere and take decisions for their children, then no decision-making capability will be built up among the children which is utterly necessary in professional world. In other way, one needs his/her family-support to do really something big. Because, no risk..... no gain. The more you take risk the more you reach closer to gain success. So, risk management is another important thing. Another thing is stress management. The person whose adjustment and adaptability skills are better than the other will ultimately survive. Decision making is a mental game. To become mentally self-sufficient, you have to face the situation and have to take decisions on your own. That's the way one grows up and becomes fit for every situation. As it's a kind of war, so nothing is unfair in love and war.
Thank you for taking time reading this post ............ See you soon ................