A Story Of Life, Living & Chasing the Life.......:-)

Way back in late '80-s a boy was born. People called him Mohit, although he had several nicknames like other babies normally have. He was lovable to everyone. As he was born premature, it was extremely difficult for his mother to make him survived. But ultimately by God's grace, he won the battle and became a citizen of earth. But later he developed his eye-problem, as the doctors previously apprehended the chances of having defects or problems in one or more organs. It might be one of many reasons of bringing him up in an overprotective environment. His mother was extremely cautious about her only son. Despite of having health-problems in his early age he was extremely intelligent at his childhood. Although he could not concentrate on a single thing for a long time, still he managed his homework as he had a photographic memory. But fate smirked him at every step of his life. He belonged to a lower-middle class family. Quite naturally he could not avail education in A-Grade institutes due to financial stringency. But his parents never let him feel the problems of day-to-day life. At a very tender age he developed immense knack in cultural activities. It was obvious as he was being brought up in a cultural ambiance. Eventually he took admission into a local music school. It was all going good. He then started earning recognition from friends and relatives. Later he had to quit the music-school as their residence got shifted to a distant place. Incidentally after a few days, he got an opportunity to learn under an eminent musical exponent in the city. He started his training under him. As I have already said, he was little bit restless and confused about his life, he accidentally took a wrong decision like putting the card before the horse. He stopped his training for his higher education as higher education was his first priority. His parents warned him several tines, but still he was stuck into his decision and lost his links from this field and became out of touch with which he was loving like anything. But God might have been designing his fate in a different way. He had lot of expectations from his life, sometimes revolted to his loved ones, but then regretted. But he always tried to be honest. Sometimes he could, sometimes he couldn't. When he found that he had not got his coveted job, he became more confused and a little bit dejected of his life. It was impossible for him to erase his past to turn over a new leaf. He lost his way. Still he is searching for a life, chasing his dreams which has a meaning in life, living. May be, the way of finding the proper route is still unknown....

Dear Readers, he still needs your support and well-wish.
Don't you bestow your hands to him ??
Can't you connect yourself with him by any moments of your life ??

A few words ... little bit freaky .......... from my hatch .......

Hello and Welcome,
Since few days I've been brooding over some weird thoughts. I don't know why. That's the purpose of this post. Before being more puzzled, let me express my views & I think I must share the things I've learnt and realized so far. It might sound little bit harsh, but I'm sorry.

In this present scenario, when our country is emerging as one of the strongest economic powerhouse of the world and ushers a new horizon to the rest of the globe, it is very important for the people to come forward and take necessary responsibility to play a significant role by taking part in this developmental process. But we, the so-called responsible and sensible citizens of India are noway  interested in hearing that. The so-called civil society is ostentatiously worried about the erosion of moral values and respects, specially when the entire society became paranoid and acts like a reptile. But has anybody tried to find out the reason behind this sort of mentality? What made us think in a so rude or rather self-centered way? Nobody can answer it. Because India is such a country where population is 121 crore and increasing in a rapid rate. There is no solution. A country where ministers and MPs are accused of money laundering over 2 lac crore (if not more). A country where cancer of many forms is going to emerge as an epidemic in the coming few years. There is no solution. There is no campaigning. 80 crore of people earn less than Rs.20/- per day in the 2nd most developing country of the world. A country where baby-food is costlier than mobile phone. A country where cars are huge in number as compared to roads. Above all, there is deep recession as an aftereffect of global economic meltdown. There is cut-throat competition in every sector because of the population and situation is getting even worse because of reservation in every sector. To survive in the keen competition, you have to be tricky. Focus to the goals are most important thing I think. Goals are more important than the way you achieve it. Yah.. morality is good as long as it works for you. But nothing is good if it doesn't work for you and anything bad might be good for you if it works for you. "Good" or "Bad" is absolutely relative. You can't always take the right decisions, rather you should always take the decisions and make them right. You just have to love yourself. That's it. This is not a kinda vocal tonic or anything else, that's the reality. You might be technically at par always, but you know, there are always required certain subtleties which you can call x-factor or zing-factor that actually makes you different from others. You can reach upto certain level by your academic skills. But to go beyond that limit you need to cultivate yourself. Secondly, another thing I need to point out is the treatment the guardians should provide to their children. You have to understand that ultimately nobody is your friend in the professional arena. In the era of rat-race everybody is running after his/her own targets. Less no.of people become happy watching you succeed, and more no.of people become happy watching you fail. Now you decide, what you should do. Over-possessiveness is kinda of mental blocks among the guardians which ultimately causes harm. In research, it has been seen that overprotective children ultimately suffer emotional insecurity and identity-crisis. Because in every situation if guardians interfere and take decisions for their children, then no decision-making capability will be built up among the children which is utterly necessary in professional world. In other way, one needs his/her family-support to do really something big. Because, no risk..... no gain. The more you take risk the more you reach closer to gain success. So, risk management is another important thing. Another thing is stress management. The person whose adjustment and adaptability skills are better than the other will ultimately survive. Decision making is a mental game. To become mentally self-sufficient, you have to face the situation and have to take decisions on your own. That's the way one grows up and becomes fit for every situation. As it's a kind of war, so nothing is unfair in love and war.

Thank you for taking time reading this post ............ See you soon ................

A few words for Learning English ...........

First of all before going to the details I like to remind you that once I said it is very important to write down whatever thoughts or speculations are wriggling in your mind all at once in a piece of paper or anywhere else, so that you will not get jumbled up with it again.

Ok ....... enough babbling ..........

Let's try to enlighten to some of those things one by one .......

i.)  Before writing anything in English you must be grammatically correct. Sorry, there is no alternative way. You just can't escape from it.
ii.) At first, try to collate the entire idea and draw a picturesque in your mind upon which your article will be based on.
iii.) You have to properly coin the words like formal, informal, slang usages (wherever and whenever necessary) so that your characterization perfectly fits to the tee. Increase vocabulary everyday by any means. Cue Card techniques might be a great choice.
iv.) Your only objective has to be to make the entire story visualized to the reader and create an irresistible interest among them.
v.) Try to make the story concise and crisp. Don't fill it with exaggerated words or events otherwise making it monotonous and people will turn away from your article.
vi.) As far as speaking English is concerned, it is always desirable to speak it like a native speaker. Learning a particular subject can no way reach to the fine grained quality and perfection which can only be achieved by congenital means.
vii.) Before going to the finer details related to pronunciation, articulation, accents etc. you must watch out for any other hidden mistakes in word coinage or anything else.
viii.) Try to give the feel of imperceptibility and handle it with proper delicacy.
ix.) And last but not the least, usages of only difficult and hard words can never make your story popular in public. Keep in mind.
x.) The most important thing whether you are willing to learn English for any sort of requirement or you just love to being with the language.
xi.) If you fall in love with English, then only you will be able to master a particular specially a foreign language.
xii.) To master a language you are not born with, you have to sink yourself pretty much inside that environment.
xiii.) There are so many words, phrases, colloquial terminologies, usages which we really don't explore while learning English. Learning a new thing is always a lovely experience for anybody, be it a language or be it anything else. English is such a great language which is etymologically superior than any other language and has highest compatibility over most of the most spoken languages all over the world. This is a true fact that we, the Indians are using only 10%-20% of its gigantic resource.
xiv.) Another important thing which I forgot to mention is the MOTHER-TONGUE-INFLUENCE. It's a major problem in the non-speaking countries where other local vernaculars play a vital role in communication. To eradicate this particular problem, you have to tactfully evade the places, situations, people who are uncomfortable in speaking English. Being a rich language & having diverse dialects across the world, it's also influenced by various local languages. Once you get into the environment, just try to sink in it. However, most of us are having this sort of problems. So, no worries.
xv.) There are so many ways you can reach to that capability level. Watch only English TV shows, tele-serials, dramas, and of course newscasts, and lot of movies too. Listen English Radios all the time. Read Story-Books, Novels especially of contemporary writers. You just have to be with that language as much time as possible. There is no other way out. See, you can form a group comprising 3/4 persons and arrange group discussions on current affairs or may be on some bizarre topics. WATCH-READ-LISTEN-SPEAK this language all the time. That's all. Sorry again for my garrulity.

Just take a quick look at :-
http://www.xamuel.com/10-reasons-why-english-is-hard-language/ .

I think you will get a better picture after reading this page.



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Are We Really Serious About Our Personality?

                   You might be wondering to think why this crap always likes to blabber on all such erratic and insignificant things. But sorry, I can't help it. The purpose of this blog is to reflect my ideas to the people around me as well as people away from me. Are we really serious about our personality? What do we think about our personality? Is it some kind of material that is readily available in market and anyone who wishes to have a good personality, can easily purchase it using Cash or Card? No ..... absolutely not .. because of not being a student of psychology, I won't be able to technically define it. But so far I can feel it, it's an indispensable component of human beings which actually comprises of behavioral, temperamental, emotional & mental patterns. All you can say about it is that, it is a set or collection of attributes that characterizes an individual, that means which uniquely characterizes or makes the person distinct from every other person. But if we look at ourselves, what we can see! all of us are trying to imitate the other as they are not satisfied at what they are. The consequence is simple enough to be understood. No person will be having his or her own personality. Are you on the right track? Ask yourself .....
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